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A Bookish Rant: Tropes I'm Over

A Bookish Rant: Tropes I’m Over

May 14, 2018 by Tanya // 14 Comments

In my dreams, someone pays me gobs and gobs of money to just sit around all day reading and snuggling with my cat. It’s a good gig if you can get it! Errr … of course, I don’t actually have that gig or know if it really exists, but I still devour books almost as fast as I gobble up a slice of cheese pizza. Thus, I consider myself to be a book expert. At least the expert of what Tanya likes and dislikes when it comes to books.

Lately I’ve found myself increasingly annoyed while reading. Don’t get me wrong — I still love books but … there are a few things that frustrate me. These things may or may not bother you. And neither of us are wrong. It’s one of things I love about books. People can read the same book and experience it so differently. It fascinates me endlessly.

Why You Gotta Hurt Me Like This, Dear Books?

Perhaps a tad overdramatic but guess who turned me into a Drama Queen? Yup. Books!

Unreliable Narrators Are Reliably Overdone

Oh man. I complained about this in my April Bookshelf post but unreliable narrators are getting on my last nerve. Narrators have become so unreliable that they are now a dreaded trope. Dear Authors: Not every book needs an unreliable narrator. Sometimes it actually hurts the book to have a poor one. And for the love of Dorothy, please stop making unreliable narrators suffer from memory loss due to coma, accident or being buried alive because that shit gets old fast.

Stop Breaking My Heart … Love

Ah, love. You make the world go-around, but … sometimes you suck. Like when I’m forced to pick a “team” in a love triangle where it’s obvious who the right one is. Even worse than a poorly constructed love triangle is Insta-Love. The only kind of insta-love I support involves cats. Instant attraction or instant lust? Sure. But love deserves to be a glorious journey.

My most hated love trope, however, is what I call magnet love, where a female character suddenly becomes desirable to every single male. Think Sookie from True Blood. There comes a point where every male character — besides her brother because apparently Charlaine Harris is thankfully not Team Lannister — lusts/loves Sookie, which rang false in a series with vampires, werewolves and fairies. Let’s get real: Sookie was a 25-year-old virgin who couldn’t even land a date two chapters earlier.

I’m Not an Acrobat; Enough with the Twists!

Book Rant: Tropes I'm Over. These are the tropes/trends in the book world that are currently driving me nuts!Listen, I love a good twist. In fact, I adore them, especially when it punches me in my face and my jaw drops and I have to sit there for a few minutes just reveling in the twist. But I also hate how twists, which should be used judiciously and with great care, appear to be mandatory these days. And worse I’ve noticed that authors seem to be addicted to twists and keep throwing twist after twist. Like they had one or maybe two good twists but kept going because why not. Twists aren’t cats. You can have too many of them!

And the Caveat: I Also Love the Things I Hate

Why. Because when an unreliable narrator or love story or twist works — WOWSER! It becomes a masterpiece (at least to me). So it’s probably more honest to say I’m over authors who do these tropes in a misguided, bad way because they’re following a trend, not because the story needs it or because they lack the ability to do it well (harsh but some incredibly talented authors cannot write an unreliable narrator worth a damn and shouldn’t feel obligated to write one because everyone else is). After all, trends come and go, but good writing endures.

Ahhhhhh … I feel a little better now that I’ve gotten that off my chest.

Now you tell me, what books trends/tropes frustrate you?

Tanya

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Comments

  1. Rebecca Jo says

    May 14, 2018 at 7:10 AM

    I so laughed at the “I love the things I hate” section… isn’t that the way it always is. Things confuse you & drive you nuts, but its all oh so good ๐Ÿ™‚ haha

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    • Tanya says

      May 16, 2018 at 10:28 PM

      YES! We love what we hate because why the heck not! ๐Ÿ˜€ And it’s what makes us complex, right?

      Reply
  2. Jana @ Jana Says says

    May 14, 2018 at 9:11 AM

    A trope I am just over for obvious reasons is the mean cheerleader. Or the coveted cheerleader. Or anything relating to cheerleaders. Let’s just leave them out of books, period.

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    • Tanya says

      May 16, 2018 at 10:29 PM

      I can totally understand why cheerleaders and tropes about them, especially the mean girl one, get on your nerves.

      Reply
  3. Ana says

    May 14, 2018 at 9:26 AM

    Twist aren’t cats!! that’s the best line I’ve read today!!

    I am currently over the Women hating Women trope…. seriously, we don’t have time to be hating on other women as much as it is lead to believe on books. Along those lines, there isn’t a Stay at Home Mom Vs Working Mom War going on! I feel that gets written on TV a LOT!! and it’s simply not as cruel as it is depicted.

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    • Tanya says

      May 16, 2018 at 10:30 PM

      I’m glad you enjoyed it because it also made me laugh. But I always make myself laugh! ๐Ÿ˜€

      Oh, that’s a good one. I should have included it because I’m with you 110%. It’s so aggravating when women just hate women and for no valid reason besides them having a vagina.

      Reply
  4. Audrey says

    May 14, 2018 at 6:59 PM

    I haaaaaaaaaate love triangles. Hate hate hate them. Especially in YA novels. And they’re in SO MANY YA novels, lol!! I, too, typically dislike unreliable narrators. I really like confident people so when a character has ZERO confidence in his/herself or what they saw/heard/remember I get annoyed.

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    • Tanya says

      May 16, 2018 at 10:32 PM

      Love triangles make me go berserk. There was a very short period where I was somewhat okay with them but then they were everywhere and rarely well-written. Just there because it was now expected. I’m purposefully avoiding any book this mont that has an unreliable narrator because we are on a break!

      Reply
  5. Mackenzie says

    May 17, 2018 at 4:42 PM

    I also hate love triangles. They make me all “ragey”.

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    • Tanya says

      May 20, 2018 at 6:16 PM

      Me too. I liked the first and second time but man! They got sooooooooo overused. Bleech!

      Reply
  6. kristen says

    May 30, 2018 at 8:14 AM

    lol yes to magnet love. there is a more inappropriate term for it in the romance (as in more adult romance) books and it’s called magical you know what. hahaha. actually i think pam in true blood says something similar about sookie in the tv show – i read all the books but barely remember them in terms of quotes or whatever. i hate love triangles for the exact reason you mentioned – there is literally never even a question, the author knows that so what’s the point?

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    • Tanya says

      June 3, 2018 at 10:02 PM

      YES! I had forgotten what they called it. HEHEHE. I never watched True Blood past the first season because I loved the books (through 8) so much and didn’t like the changes. Love triangles are just annoying. Unrealistic (and let’s be real, most people struggle to find ONE person who loves, much less MULTIPLE people) and so obvious who the “right” one is.

      Reply
  7. Nancy @ NY Foodie Family says

    June 2, 2018 at 7:56 PM

    I’m with you on the unreliable narrators and too many twists. As you know, I’ve been steering away from suspense/pyschological thrillers because my most recent reads have been disappointing.

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    • Tanya says

      June 3, 2018 at 10:03 PM

      Too many of my suspense/psychological reads have underwhelmed me recently. Too much the same, ya know. And it’s frustrating because that’s my favorite genre but all the unreliable narrators and too many twists are really getting on my last nerve.

      Reply

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